A Man’s List of Things He Hates in a Woman
We’ve all heard the phrase Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus and how men and women often differ in their views of the world, even simple things like what makes each gender happy or sad. But sometimes our differences go deeper than that, especially when it comes to dating and relationships with the opposite sex. Sometimes what makes one man happy can make another man miserable (or vice versa). A man’s list of things he hates in a woman would have to be quite comprehensive, as everyone has different expectations and preferences when it comes to romance, love, marriage and relationships with women in general.
A man hates when his significant other is insecure about their relationship. Men want women who are confident and have faith in themselves and their partner, not someone who constantly questions the relationship.
My list may seem sexist, but I assure you that it is not. A woman can be perfect with the exception of one or two things, but if she has more than that on my list then forget it. Remember, this is just my opinion.
1) She doesn’t know how to cook. I don’t need her to be an expert chef, but I do need her to have some skills in the kitchen.
If she is constantly asking you for money, it is emotional blackmail. She may not even be doing anything with the money but just asking for more and more. It can feel controlling and manipulative to have someone constantly demanding things from you without any reciprocation or consideration.
Some men hate materialism and how a woman is always complaining about her latest new purse. Other men can’t stand when a woman constantly wants to talk about her latest beauty product or clothing purchase. Women who are too into their looks may seem more superficial than you want your partner to be.
I’m not sure why, but I can’t stand it when my girlfriend is jealous. It doesn’t matter what the situation is, she gets so insecure and it just makes everything worse. She’ll call me more often when I’m at work just to make sure that I haven’t cheated on her or anything like that. And if I don’t answer the phone right away she’ll start accusing me of seeing someone else.
I do not like it when a woman tries to control me. I want to make my own decisions, and I don’t need her to tell me what I can or cannot do. It is important that she is supportive and understanding as opposed to trying to take the reins from me.
The most manipulative behavior I’ve seen from women is when they use their children as leverage. They’ll threaten to take the kids and leave if we don’t do what they want. It feels like my ex-wife was trying to get me wrapped around her finger, but I didn’t fall for it. She used that tactic on more than one occasion and it never worked, which is why she eventually left with our son without asking permission.
Lack of Respect
I can’t stand when a woman talks down to me or lacks respect for my opinion. I also don’t like it when they are rude and talk behind my back. When you don’t treat me with the same level of respect that I treat you, it really bothers me and makes me feel unappreciated.
I personally do not like when a woman is disrespectful to others, especially men. I can’t count the number of times I’ve been called names or had my intelligence insulted by people that are supposed to be ladylike. If you’re going to treat people badly, then you might as well just be yourself and be rude as possible.